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Gay Pheromones: the Laws of Attraction and the Modern

Gay Pheromones: the Laws of Attraction and the Modern
by caligirl » Mon Jun 13, 2016 8:11 pm

Gay Pheromones - the Laws of Attraction and the Modern Dating Scene

Useful, although reductive, theory on attraction comes from evolutionary psychology. It holds that we are drawn to others on the basis of our assessment of their reproductive fitness. We weigh up physical qualities (symmetry, health, youth, strength in men, child-bearing indicators in women), material possessions (wealth), social skills (status, charity, humour, confidence) and cultural factors (fashion, weight, skin tone, hair styles, body decoration). We have roughly standardized perceptions of 'attractive' individuals, though it can vary over history and in different parts of the world.


Various Factors can be At Play During the Initial Attraction

Sometimes it begins as physical impulse - pheromones doing their work - and sometimes it starts as an emotional connection first. Usually it involves an implicit assessment of the other's suitability as a potential mate (genetic donor) and/or a long-term partner (protector of self and of future offspring). This entails a complex interplay of observation (often matching them up to our ideal, or even setting them up as an ideal), reaction (via chemicals and body language) and interaction. It is not always that we just turn on the computer, and there is a page about Pheromones. We have written this article to let others know more about Pheromones through our resources. :roll:

An excellent book that deals with attraction from an evolutionary perspective is 'The Mating Mind: How Sexual Choice Shaped the Evolution of Human Nature' by Geoffrey Miller. His hypothesis is that a lot of how we conduct our lives e.g. high status jobs, creative work, being charitable or popular for example, sends signals to attract potential partners.

Ideas about compatibility include 'opposites attract' and 'like-minded attract'. There seems to be clinical support for both positions. On the one hand we may be drawn to individuals who have characteristics we lack. They may reflect our shadow side - the elements that reside within us but which we refuse to acknowledge. They may also balance or complement our personalities. Some examples of differences include highly-driven v. relaxed, artistic v. scientific, sporty v. sedate and introverted v. extroverted. On the other hand, like-minded individuals may connect well because it widens the field of interaction, for example sports lovers can play and watch games together, and extroverts can socialize happily. What seems important in either of these positions is that the underlying core values are congruent. Ethical and social situations tend to be matched in solid partnerships.

An available person is likely to send out the right signals when they are self-contented. It is a clich, but a relevant one - when we can accept and love ourselves, we are in a good position to be accepted and loved by another. Inner confidence makes itself visible to potential partners. It is more convincing than 'fake' confidence (though sometimes in imagining ourselves confident, we can become it). This is why many happily committed individuals can be so appealing to others.

Any time you interact with another person, whether in business or from an interpersonal standpoint, even the clerk at the department store, there is a relationship there. It may be totally casual because you will likely never see that person again, or it may be a relationship that you wish to continue, such as a first date with someone, or even the maintenance of the relationship that you have with your spouse.

Studies Have Shown that this Also Applies to Marital Relationships

Yes, a marriage is a relationship. It is also a partnership, although in the world today, the "partnership" aspect is not nearly as prevalent as it was when the couple was standing at the altar. People have an inclination of bragging on the knowledge they have on any particular project. However, we don't want to brag on what we know on Pheromones, so long as it proves useful to you, we are happy.

Have you ever given any thought to how that relationship is perceived by others? In both business and general life, you would probably be very surprised to find out how you come across to other people. Many people come across as pessimistic or negative without even realizing it. Others come across as being very brass or controlling without meaning to. It is very difficult to tell where another person is coming from, since many people present themselves in a relationship as something other than they are, whether they mean to or not.

One thing that needs to be considered in relationships is the aspect of change. People change over time as a result of life experiences, both good and bad, as well as various other influences in their lives, such as job pressures, job changes, family crisis, and a wide variety of other things. Change is to be expected in any relationship, but in the martial relationship, both parties need to change in approximately the same way and in approximately the same direction. Far too often, this does not happen. The couples find, after a period of years, that they have gone down different paths as they live together, and at some point their paths have diverged too far apart to ever realistically expect that they can come back together. This leads to tension in the relationship because neither can any longer learn to EXPECT how the other will behave or react. Typically this can lead to one partner acquiring a controlling nature, because they want to go back to the day when they knew what to expect of their partner, and by exerting control, sometimes coupled with verbal abuse, they are attempting to go back to that place of relationship comfort. :idea:

However, as you look deeper at this particular aspect, you can begin to see how some people do not have a good relationship. You know the type, where your hair stands on end the minute you see THAT person walk into a room. Most times this is simply dismissed as "there is no chemistry there" but it is more than that. That person does not act as you expect them to, you do not behave as they expect you to, and you both realize this and therefore there is conflict, dislike, and many times even a lack of respect or trust.


"Opposites attract" is a law of attraction, at least where electromagnetism is concerned. But are there laws about attraction between two people? "In a world that is full of strangers" as a line in a famous song of the 1980's goes, is there a clear set of rules that allows two people to fall for each other?

So How Does Attraction Figure in Relationships?

You have probably heard that attraction is a prelude, or a factor towards a relationship. Most probably, at least in the beginning; but attraction alone cannot make a relationship work. It is that attraction that makes you notice a person from the opposite sex, but once you get to know the person more, attraction is just one consideration. Shared values, dreams, and passions become more significant in long-term relationships.

So Should I Stop Trying to Become Attractive?

More than trying to become physically attractive, work on all aspects of your health: physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual. Physical attraction is still a precursor. Remember, biology predisposes us to choose the partner with the healthiest genes.

This could probably account for a statement commonly heard from men and women on their failed relationships: "I thought he/she was this kind of person." :)

Does Personality Figure in Sexual Attraction?

Yes, but so does your perception of a potential mate's personality. According to a research conducted by Klohnen, E.C., & S. Luo in 2003 on interpersonal attraction and personality, a person's sense of self-security and at least the person's perception of his/her partner were found to be strong determinants of attraction in hypothetical situations.

Attraction a Matter of Chemistry?

Maybe. According to scientists, the attraction between animals of the opposite sex is all about chemicals called pheromones. The effect of pheromones in behavior of insects is the most studied to date.

There is wisdom in knowing yourself: who you are, your beliefs, values, and dreams. Don't pretend to be someone you aren't. Fooling another person by making him/her think that you share the same values and beliefs is only going to cause you both disappointments. Responsibility is what makes a person. So we felt it our responsibility to elaborate more on Human Pheromones so that not only us, but everyone knew more about it!


Some scientists believe that animals (usually the females) such as insects and mammals send out these chemical signals to tell the male of their species that their genes are different from theirs. This gene diversity is important in producing offspring with better chances of survival. :lol:


What does this tell us? We prefer a certain personality type, which attracts you to a person. But aside from the actual personality of the person, which can only be verified through close interaction through time, it is your perception of your potential partner that attracts you to him/her, whether the person of your affection truly has that kind of personality or not.

Most scientists would assert that these do not exist, or if they do, do not play a role in sexual attraction between a man and a woman. But new researches such as that conducted by Swiss researchers from the University of Bern led by Klaus Wedekind are slowly making these scientists rethink their stand.

Many different pheromones products are now available on the market. Pheromone products come in all shapes and sizes. For example, you have an option to buy pheromone colognes, pheromone oils, pheromone perfumes, or pheromone concentrates. Also, pheromone products are available in either unscented or scented versions. Of course, men and women use different types of pheromone products - but there are some unisex pheromone colognes, too. Androstenone and androsterone-based products attract women, while copulins attract men.

Based on popularity and effectiveness, some of the best pheromone products include: Chikara, Alter Ego, Scent of Eros, Rogue Male, Pheromax, Realm, The Edge, Passion Pheromone Attractant, Perception, New Pheromone Additive - NPA and Primal Instinct. These products contain different amounts of pheromones. Most pheromones can be combined with others. For example, Scent of Eros can be combined with androstenone products - Primal Instinct or The Edge.


These are two most common problems of pheromone cologne users:

Pheromone Overdose

Pheromone overdose happens when you apply large doses of synthetic pheromones. If you notice people avoiding you, act intimidated by you or becoming aggressive towards you, you are probably using too much of the pheromone product. It is very easy to overdose, especially with unscented pheromone concentrates. These products contain no added fragrances to mask the pheromone smell which can be easily detected with the nose. Pheromone smell is often compared to body odor. Many people cannot smell pheromones, so the nose is not always a reliable guide when deciding how much is too much. Experiment with low doses of pheromones first, and try to stay within the limits described in the pheromone product guide.

Pheromone Build-up

Some pheromones are absorbed into the skin and may stay there for a longer period of time. Usually, depending on the biochemical characteristics of your skin, pheromones remain on your skin for about five hours, and up to ten hours on your clothing. Pheromone build-up happens when the skin absorbs so much pheromone content from multiple pheromone applications over a period of time, that you notice a significant drop off in the effectiveness of a pheromone product. If you see no good reactions after you use pheromones or you see better reactions when you don't apply pheromones - you have this problem. To prevent this don't apply products directly to the skin - apply them to your clothing instead. Clothing applications can be more convenient and will last longer.

Check Contact Information

Can the company be contacted either by email or phone. Both would be preferred. Do a test with their email address and see if you get a response. A prompt response is a good sign, usually within 24-48 hours.

There have been enough studies conducted in recent years to suggest there is a connection between pheromones and attraction. The animal and insect world have been "pheromone conscious" since time began yet, the question remains, do humans really have the capacity to attract a mate through these invisible chemical messengers? Well, studies seem to indicate this ability does exist.

Pheromone Oil Packages

Pheromone oils come in either an unscented or scented version. They are packaged in attractive containers either spray on or dab on. In some cases, you can purchase a concetrated pheromone oil product which will allow you to add it to your favorite cologne. But be warned, whether they will have any effect on your attractiveness to your opposite or same sex pursuits is still being debated.

Do pheromone oils do what they claim to do? This is now a well worn question and one which is difficult to answer. If you are considering playing the synthesized pheromone game then you need to consider a few things before diving into your purse or wallet and purchasing the first product you come across.

Male Female Attraction Through Pheromones

The only way the lower living beings like ants, butterflies, birds, dogs or even a tiger can communicate is through pheromones. The pheromones are the way they communicate as they cannot communicate through oral or written word. The communication starts when the particular species it at its very best to procreate and ends when the species is not in a position to attract the opposite sex. Apart from the natural desire to find a mating partner, the pheromones also serve the purpose of communicating fight or flight signal.

Human Pheromones

The existence of human pheromones was found in 1986 and then onwards it has become an industry in itself. The manufacture of pheromones has become a multi million dollar business. The research and development in pheromones is also a booming business in USA. :roll:

How Pheromones are Used for Attracting Males

In order to make a complete woman out of you and to competing with other women around your choice male, it might be necessary to get the attention of the male. The dressing is one way of doing it, but when you are in company of other females who are all similarly dressed, you might find that pheromones work on a subconscious level without your man knowing it. He is attracted to you by the action of pheromoes advantage to you. Make sure that your other actions do not impede the work of pheromones.

Selective Pheromones

Males are attracted to female pheromones. While male pheromones have been given the name of androstenone, no such name could be found to the female pheromones. It is referred by the same name and marketed through the brand names. In the world dominated by the males, where men are trying to woo females, it might be difficult to find a female trying to woo just any male. Women have to be specific and thus should be trying to woo a particular male by using a female pheromone.

Since the pheromones work on a subconscious level without the male even knowing it, it is a greater attracting force than your actions. It is a magnet working for you and if you know your man better you will be able to add to that bond of attraction, you have everything working for you and no negative factors. Hence pheromones work for you.

The Best Way to Wear Pheromone

Femininity is the best pheromone and added to it the pheromone that you wear on your body; you have everything working for you. The best way to use the pheromone is to apply it on your breast and then allow the pheromones to work for you. Physical intimacy is not necessary but you have to be within just 2 to 7 feet for pheromones to be effective. The remote control of pheromones will make the male be attracted to you without his knowing it and remain attracted to you as long as you want it. ;)